Sometimes it feels like we are hiding behind excuses for why we would not attend an event of some kind. It could be a dinner party, a girls’ night out or maybe an after work on a Thursday. Yet, if you are feeling tired and would just like to stay home, would it be okay to say that without getting too many follow up questions; are you feeling sick? Has something happened? I can’t help wondering, is it okay to cancel an event without having feelings of guilt?